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I'm Ready for 50: SOL 15

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I'll be 48 on October 9th. I'm excited to be 50. 
Is that weird? 
In so many ways, I'm where I need to be. 
I'm ready to be in my fifties. I'm prepping for it. Really. 
I've started growing out my gray hair. I have wanted to have gray hair for a long time, but people are oddly averse to that. They tell me to keep dying my hair, that no one should look too old. I want to be that woman who is cool, not done. 
I want gray hair and funky hats. 
I want jeans and white tee shirts. 
I want Ray Ban eye glasses and Frye boots. 
I want stacks of books and long silk scarves.
I want to watch my children grow and need me less.
I want to travel to places where the sea goes on forever.
I want to write every day and I want my writing to be published.
I want to be rooted so deeply in my life that my branches grow new ones.


  1. It's good to embrace the natural stages of life. Liam's 1st grade teacher rocked gray hair. It was a perfect match for her - and we loved everything about her! My mom still says I'm too young to do certain things. Maybe that will change when I turn 50 ;-)

  2. I feel there's power in your slice that I don't often see. We women tend to shrink--tend to want to shrink, which is even worse--and I love the acceptance and boldness and joy that are in these sentences, these declarations of the woman you want to be now and in the future. And I especially love the Frye boots. Because what is life without them?!

  3. Yes, yes, a thousand times yes! Forty was grand, and fifty is even better. One reason is that the caretaking of our children is coming to a close, and we can shift our focus to caring for ourselves a bit better. And when we fill our buckets, watch out world, because we become even better givers!

  4. The last line says it all. You are in a good place to make that happen.

  5. I think you already are cool!!! I love that you embrace this and are looking forward to 50. "I want gray hair and funky hats." ME TOO!!!!

  6. Okay first, I love this. Second, my children share the same birthday as you! And back to the loving this. I love multiple lines in this piece and multiple images. A power filled piece

  7. I want what you want, save for the hats. I don't do hats...

  8. Wow - just wow!
    That last line made me want to applaud. I love this piece. I'm 46...hope to follow in your footsteps.

  9. I love, love, love this slice and read the last line to myself over and over. I just turned 49 and my gray hair is quite evident. (I thought my hair was primarily brown 'til my students told me we needed to add gray to the hair color graph to include me!) Your poem reminds me of a poem I bought and framed called "When I am an Old Woman I Shall Wear Purple." ( ) Check it out if you get a chance!

  10. I have a friend who is younger than me and she has beautiful grey hair. If I thought mine would look like hers, I'd consider it. Maybe when I'm 60. The pattern of your end is so nice how the lines grow. I like the idea of branches growing new ones.

  11. I have already hit the 50 mark. Definitely some advantages! I loved your last line also! That is what life is all about!

  12. I love all of the things that you want! I also love that it goes down almost like a staircase when you look at your post quickly! I love the grey hair look! I say do what you want!!! I have grey coming in on the front, but it's only one streak. I blame my 2 year old...hahaha! ;) I also love that you want funky are cool! :)

  13. Your want list is fantastic!

    I will be 48 in July!


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